Note to JuliaAna: you and I are close in age (2nd Saturn return approaching) and I also have natal Saturn in the 10th house. I too have never been married. Since the 10th house is associated with one of the parents,it could be that our view of our parents’ marriage may have contributed to the desire for remaining single. It also could reflect one’s desire to wait until an advanced age to make this type of commitment. Do you also have Sadge rising? Jim seems to attract a number of people with Sadge rising to his classes. It would be great to trade “second Saturn return” stories!

“Jill’s” boyfriend is moving in with her on January 1.

I’m confused: I notice that you say early in the article that “Jill’s” boyfriend is moving in with her, but in your reply to JuliaAna, you say that she is moving in with her boyfriend. Which is true? It would imply two different likely scenarios with the later move she mentions, depending on whether she’s the one moving in, or he is.
Can you clarify?

However, I would like to comment to all my readers about Mercury retrograde. I do not believe in a black/white approach to this. There are many astrologers who would advise a person to never move in with another person when Mercury is retrograde. Perhaps it is best to avoid it if possible. But sometimes, life brings us into situations where this happens and when that occurs, things often work out well. What it does mean is that the living arrangement may be temporary or that adjustments may have to be made.

In “Jill’s” case, she has already expressed to me that she may be moving in several months or this summer. This means that there is consistency and coherence between her moving in with her boyfriend while Mercury is retrograde and her likely move in a few months.

Hope this helps.

Jim Sher

I think she has the midas touch right now and communication is her ticket to ride. She stands solidly in her power right now! She has the presence & chrisma (1st)& the “voice”(3rd)to channel(Uranus) healing(chiron)and the energy/enthusiam(Jup)to put it all together now in any package she chooses.
Saturn/9th/10th: she has the drive & ambition to succeed.
Trans/Saturn conj natal Uranus=Sat/responsibility grounds electric Uran./Uran breaks-up stogy ole’ in-a-rut Saturn; and the alchelmy of the balance is avant-guard origionality & intuition, w/ common sense/wisdom and diciplin, Saturn gift. What are you waiting for???
YOU GO GIRL! as Oprah would say!

Note to Cheryl; I was born w/ Saturn in my 10th in libra; Im having
a second return now exact…………I have never been married….it would scare the hell outta me!!! But I’ll let ya’ll know if I do…it’s gonna’ hit me 3xs retrograding! At least its in Libra thank Goddess!!! Happy Yule everyone!